Social Anxiety: When Being Around Others Feels Overwhelming
- Whitney Hancock

- Sep 13
- 2 min read
Updated: Sep 19

Most people feel a little nervous before giving a speech or meeting someone new. But for those with social anxiety, everyday interactions can feel overwhelming, exhausting, and even terrifying. At our counseling practice in Colorado Springs, we often hear clients describe social anxiety as “always worrying about saying or doing the wrong thing” or “feeling judged no matter what.”
Social anxiety isn’t just shyness—it’s a type of anxiety disorder that can make it difficult to fully participate in work, school, relationships, and community life.
What Social Anxiety Looks Like
Social anxiety shows up differently for everyone, but some common signs include:
Intense fear of being judged, embarrassed, or rejected
Avoiding social situations (parties, meetings, even phone calls)
Physical symptoms like blushing, sweating, shaking, or a racing heart
Overanalyzing conversations long after they’ve happened
Dreading everyday situations such as eating in public or speaking up in class or meetings
This constant fear and self-consciousness can leave people feeling isolated, lonely, or misunderstood.
How Therapy Helps with Social Anxiety
The good news is that social anxiety is treatable, and with the right support, you can begin to feel more comfortable in your own skin. In our Colorado Springs counseling office, we use approaches such as:
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Identifying and challenging negative beliefs about yourself and others.
Exposure Therapy: Gradually and safely practicing feared situations until they become more manageable.
Social Skills Training: Building confidence in communication and connection.
Mindfulness Techniques: Learning to stay present instead of getting stuck in “what if” thoughts.
Therapy provides both tools and a safe, supportive environment to work through fears at your own pace.
Reclaiming Connection
Life with social anxiety can feel small and restricted. But healing is possible. Imagine being able to attend a gathering without panicking, speak up in a meeting without dread, or simply connect with others without fear of being judged. With the right therapy, these changes can happen.
Social Anxiety Therapy in Colorado Springs
If social anxiety is holding you back, you don’t have to navigate it alone. Working with a therapist can help you build confidence, reduce fear, and open the door to deeper, more meaningful connections.
📍 We provide social anxiety therapy in Colorado Springs for teens, adults, and young professionals. Contact us today to get started.



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